Loving What Is
Meditation and Yoga Retreat
Three Night Retreat
March 20 - 23, 2014 (Thursday - Sunday)
Transformative Meditation and Yoga Retreat
St. Crispin's Retreat Center
To register click here.
To download a retreat flyer click here.
Loving “what is” begins with acknowledging whatever you disapprove of, push away and fear. Next, with breath, mantra or prayer to steady yourself, and approach “what is” with compassion. Do so and the war you wage with life and yourself dissolves into understanding. Your mind moves from the battlefield to the peace treaty and your energy transforms from fear to love. Then you are in a state of being that allows you to accept what you cannot change, to change what you can and to reconnect with the felt sense of the sacred. Resist “what is” and you disconnect, making your world small. Accept “what is” and you unite, making your world large.
You, and everyone else, inevitably gets caught up in the comings and goings of daily life. You don’t take time to be with yourself or to tend to yourself with the love a mother gives a newborn child. For this reason it is invaluable to set aside sacred time for guided reflection and rest.
This retreat is a rich exploration into healing the divisions and judgments that separate you from wisdom and love. It will incorporate practices that gently point to your sacred self, heal your inner sense of woundedness and open the doors to your heart and inner wisdom. We will follow a balanced schedule of meditation, inner reflection, compassion practices, easy yoga movement and deep rest. This combination of activities gently and safely allows you to care for unloved aspects of yourself. You also uncover the truth that beneath it all you are already and always whole. This discovery taps into the wellspring of personal happiness and keeps your heart open.
One of the great values of spiritual retreats is that it builds your capacity to witness your thoughts. In doing so, your mind quiets and you enter into an extraordinary world of stillness and acceptance of what is. Resting in this quiet is wonderful by itself. It also gives you a sacred place within to stand on, where you can see yourself through the eyes of your heart.
Loving “what is” gives clarity and insight that is undeniably transformative. Through intentional practices, including breath awareness, you feel supported and connected. This safety allows your psyche to show itself to you so you can understand who you truly are.
During the retreat we approach transformation through the mental, emotional, physical, energetic and subtle bodies. To facilitate openness we move the body gently with yoga. To free up trapped energies we use breathing practices. We journal in response to inquiry questions and have thoughtful discussions about loving. To ensure deep rest we set aside free time for walking, contemplation and resting. Throughout the retreat, outside of guided group discussions, we maintain silence to facilitate deep transformation.
mindfulness practice, spiritual inquiry
We have combined the most transformative spiritual practices to create a powerful spiritual and psychological container for connecting into the inner wellspring of true happiness and peace.
Join us in retreat and welcome the power of silence as we become aware of who we truly are.
The retreats are non-denominational in presentation and open to all that are interested. Our past retreats have been attended by people from many faiths i.e. Christian, Buddhist, Jewish, Muslim, Atheist, etc.
Silence at Retreat
A retreat is a much needed break from daily responsibility and routine. It is a time to center and tend to the inner life. Other than two group meetings daily, the retreat is held in silence. Silence is a profound spiritual practice that allows us to move into our inner core and discover its inherent peace and tranquility. We learn to connect to stillness and experience the wisdom, clarity and joy that arises from its depths.
Silence is richly nurturing, yet some are initially uncomfortable with it, fearing that unwelcome memories and thoughts will arise. In retreat we discover that thoughts are just events in the mind and not reality. We learn to witness these inner events and not identify with them which transforms our life.
Together, the group creates a safe container for silence. In the stillness we discover the deep connectedness to one another and to life. We realize that we are not as separate as we think. The peaceful warmth of silence strengthens us and supports our relaxation into inner stillness.
During the sustained silence in retreat we realize that stillness is conscious and all pervading. Once the inner stillness is recognized we can return to it again and again for inner guidance and wisdom. Then we no longer have to rely on superficial or historical ideas about how to live. The intelligence that comes through silence shows us what is needed to fulfill our potential.
We all yearn to be happy. Spiritual traditions teach us that real happiness comes from within. In silence we discover happiness. When we tap into the wellspring of happiness, we naturally begin to let go of what is not needed and find the support to do the things that express the wisdom and love we have found within.
Silence is a powerful practice. All that is real arises from stillness. From the unmanifested comes compassion, joy, wisdom, creativity and peace so that they can be manifested in our lives.
Silence is also a safe container for more focused forms of practice that help us to become conscious of that which no longer serves life's unfolding.
There are only two things we can become aware of, that which is true in our life and what is false. Habits, old stories, memories, and anticipations are false in that they stem from thoughts about the past or the future. Events in the mind, they seem real because they live in the body/mind and are experienced as repeated patterns, motivations and uncomfortable emotions. They recur because we are unaware of them. Once we become conscious, they lose their life energy and their grip on us.
In retreat we engage practices to help us become conscious of old stories, ideas and habits that recycle over and over. Nothing is forced or pressured. We simply invite that which is ready to come into awareness to do so. We can see and feel what comes into consciousness, because we are being held in the embrace of present moment awareness. Remaining here and now, we can see into what is false without being retraumatized.
Through journal writing and directed conversations, we inquire into old stories and ideas. We also inquire into what is real and wants to be lived now. Inner guidance is encouraged as it too has opportunity to express itself in words.
Through guided body movement we release trapped energy that unconsciously has perpetuated old stories and emotional energies. We also make space for movement to express love, wisdom and other forms of the sacred. This enables us to feel the presence of our own inherent goodness in our bodies.
By listening to beautiful, evocative music our souls are touched. Depth responds to depth and our essence arises and is felt throughout the body/mind as it responds to the beauty of sacred music.
Mindfulness practices take us into the direct experience of the present moment in two ways. The first way is by becoming aware of our inner body. Doing so connects us to our inner selves so that we are not lost in thinking. We become embodied, in-the-body.
The easiest way to become aware of our inner body is by paying attention to the movement of breath. When our attention is focused on the flow of breath moving in and out, thoughts subside. Our mind becomes engrossed with breathing and becomes quiet. We orient to the inner world.
We practice taking our awareness inside the body in other ways; by noticing physical sensations within the body, the beating of the heart and the feeling of energy moving through the body, whatever feels most soothing. We learn to take refuge in the comfort of being at home in the body.
The second way of coming into present moment awareness is by focusing on what we perceive through the sensory capacities of seeing, hearing, smelling, tasting and touching. Paying attention to sensory perception connects us to the immediate world around us. Rather than feeling disconnected from our experience, we feel interconnected to life as it arises in the here and now.
During retreat we practice mindfulness and awareness using sound, taste, body sensation, walking meditation, and movement awareness.
Like breathing, sensory perception is familiar and easy to overlook. Thoughts demand our attention. However, when we are lost in thoughts we disconnect from our experience of the outer life. By paying full attention to our subjective experience of the outer world we realize that we are deeply connected to it. In reconnecting we feel alive and know that we belong, just because we are.
Four Day-Three Night Retreat
Early Registration, received before February 7
Per Person Double Occupancy, $395.
Per Person Private Room, $455.
Late Registration, received after February 7
Per Person Double Occupancy, $425.
Per Person Private Room, $485.
To register click here.
To down load a retreat flyer click here.
The retreat center lodge overlooks a tranquil lake surrounded by native oak-covered hills. The facility is a modern conference center with hotel style rooms. Each room has two twin beds and a private bathroom.
Travel to Retreat
The retreat center is about one hour twenty minutes from
When making travel arrangements please keep in mind that in order to attend the retreat you are required to arrive on time and stay through the end of the retreat. Please allow extra time for travel to the retreat center.
We offer a limited number of partial work scholarships to retreats for those who need financial assistance.
Cancellation fees are as follows: 31 days or more prior to retreat, $30 cancellation fee. 14-30 days prior to the retreat, $60 fee. Less than 14 days prior to the retreat, no refund.
Thursday, check-in 1:30 pm to 3:00 pm. Thursday program 3:30 pm to 9 pm. Friday & Saturday program 7:30 am to 9 pm. Sunday program is from 7:30 am to 1 pm.
Because the schedule is a vital part of the retreat container, we require that all attendees arrive on time and plan to stay through the end of the retreat. Participants are also required to attend the first and last meditations of each day.
Rick NurrieStearns, is a meditation teacher, co-author of the books "Soulful Living," "Yoga for Anxiety," "Yoga for Emotional Trauma," and "Yoga Mind Peaceful Mind" (2015). For a decade he was the publisher of Personal Transformation, a magazine of psychospiritual growth. He has been immersed in consciousness studies for nearly four decades. He is nourished by silence, loves the wilderness and simple living.
Mary NurrieStearns, is a psychotherapist and yoga teacher who travels nationally teaching yoga, mindfulness and meditation. She was editor of Personal Transformation magazine and co-author of "Soulful Living," "Yoga for Anxiety," "Yoga for Emotional Trauma," and "Yoga Mind Peaceful Mind" (2015). She credits the healing practices of yoga with profound inner healing and lives quietly with Rick in their house in the woods.