Four Day-Three Night Retreat May 14-17, 2009 (Thursday-Sunday)
Loving What Is Yoga Meditation Retreat St Crispin's Retreat Center
Near Oklahoma City and TulsaOklahoma One of the most potent yogic practices is taking time for retreat. By giving ourselves some time and space away from our usual life, we have opportunity for larger perspective. This happens in part by simply letting ourselves rest.
We all know how a good night’s sleep replenishes us. Imagine the benefits of several days away, with nothing to do other than to be nurtured by yogic practices. While it sounds and even feels luxurious, in reality it is a necessity. If we don’t take time out, we are prone to mechanically moving through life, repeating old patterns. That is a true formula for suffering, because it numbs our awareness of the deepest knowing in our hearts.
We naturally yearn to be happy and fulfilled. Yoga tells us that happiness comes from the recognition that we are more than our bodies, more than our minds, more than our emotions. Our body is our home, our mind our servant and our emotions our response to experience. We are consciousness itself, longing to be recognized by us as the essence of what we are. Accordingly, yoga practices point us to this truth by teaching us to become aware of awareness itself. We learn to witness our experiences and our thoughts. In doing so we discover that we are capable of being conscious of our inner lives. As we become absorbed in awareness we discover deep contentment and an experience of life as miraculous. We realize that we are inherently precious. We organically know that we matter, because we are sacred. We begin to value our body as our temple, our mind as a marvelous tool and our emotional life as the thermometer of our experience.
During retreat we immerse ourselves in the transformative yoga practices. We discover for ourselves their healing power. Once we experience their benefits we are also more likely to take the practices into our daily lives. To facilitate openness we move the body with flowing yoga postures. To quiet the mind we focus on relaxing breath, to open our minds we chant sacred words, to see into the workings of the mind we do guided journal writing. To give ourselves rest we follow a balanced schedule of meditation, physical yoga sessions, yogic teachings, journal writing, walking, and periods of rest. We maintain social silence so that we can listen to the whispers of the heart.
We take retreat in a physically quiet, safe, retreat center surrounded by the beauty of wilderness. Our basic needs are taken care of and we follow a simple schedule. We are nurtured by the loving group energy and palpable silence. In the silence we meet ourselves. We see that which is no longer true for us and is ready to be let go of. We also hear the still voice of inner knowing which points out what is true for us and therefore, is our inner guidance.
If your heart beacons you into retreat, please come. You need no previous yoga or meditation experience to fully participate. You also need no previous retreat experience. We all begin where we are. Yoga tells us that all efforts at becoming more conscious are beneficial. Father Thomas Keating gives us the same message, saying, “God appreciates all our efforts at friendship.”
meditation • gentle yoga
mindfulness practice • spiritual inquiry
We have combined the most transformative spiritual practices from our previous retreats and workshops to create a powerful spiritual and psychological container for connecting into the inner wellspring of true happiness and peace.
Join us in retreat and welcome the power of silence as we become aware of who we truly are.
The retreats are non-denominational in presentation and open to all that are interested. Our past retreats have been attended by people from many faiths i.e. Christian, Buddhist, Jewish, Muslim, Atheist, etc.
A retreat is a much needed break from daily responsibility and routine. It is a time to center and tend to the inner life. Other than two group meetings daily, the retreat is held in silence. Silence is a profound spiritual practice that allows us to move into our inner core and discover its inherent peace and tranquility. We learn to connect to stillness and experience the wisdom, clarity and joy that arises from its depths.
Silence is richly nurturing, yet some are initially uncomfortable with it, fearing that unwelcome memories and thoughts will arise. In retreat we discover that thoughts are just events in the mind and not reality. We learn to witness these inner events and not identify with them which transforms our life.
Together, the group creates a safe container for silence. In the stillness we discover the deep connectedness to one another and to life. We realize that we are not as separate as we think. The peaceful warmth of silence strengthens us and supports our relaxation into inner stillness.
During the sustained silence in retreat we realize that stillness is conscious and all pervading. Once the inner stillness is recognized we can return to it again and again for inner guidance and wisdom. Then we no longer have to rely on superficial or historical ideas about how to live. The intelligence that comes through silence shows us what is needed to fulfill our potential.
We all yearn to be happy. Spiritual traditions teach us that real happiness comes from within. In silence we discover happiness. When we tap into the wellspring of happiness, we naturally begin to let go of what is not needed and find the support to do the things that express the wisdom and love we have found within.
Silence is a powerful practice. All that is real arises from stillness. From the unmanifested comes compassion, joy, wisdom, creativity and peace so that they can be manifested in our lives.
Silence is also a safe container for more focused forms of practice that help us to become conscious of that which no longer serves life’s unfolding.
There are only two things we can become aware of, that which is true in our life and what is false. Habits, old stories, memories, and anticipations are false in that they stem from thoughts about the past or the future. Events in the mind, they seem real because they live in the body/mind and are experienced as repeated patterns, motivations and uncomfortable emotions. They recur because we are unaware of them. Once we become conscious, they lose their life energy and their grip on us.
In retreat we engage practices to help us become conscious of old stories, ideas and habits that recycle over and over. Nothing is forced or pressured. We simply invite that which is ready to come into awareness to do so. We can see and feel what comes into consciousness, because we are being held in the embrace of present moment awareness. Remaining here and now, we can see into what is false without being retraumatized.
Through journal writing and directed conversations, we inquire into old stories and ideas. We also inquire into what is real and wants to be lived now. Inner guidance is encouraged as it too has opportunity to express itself in words.
Through guided body movement we release trapped energy that unconsciously has perpetuated old stories and emotional energies. We also make space for movement to express love, wisdom and other forms of the sacred. This enables us to feel the presence of our own inherent goodness in our bodies.
By listening to beautiful, evocative music our souls are touched. Depth responds to depth and our essence arises and is felt throughout the body/mind as it responds to the beauty of sacred music.
Mindfulness practices take us into the direct experience of the present moment in two ways. The first way is by becoming aware of our inner body. Doing so connects us to our inner selves so that we are not lost in thinking. We become embodied, in-the-body.
The easiest way to become aware of our inner body is by paying attention to the movement of breath. When our attention is focused on the flow of breath moving in and out, thoughts subside. Our mind becomes engrossed with breathing and becomes quiet. We orient to the inner world.
We practice taking our awareness inside the body in other ways; by noticing physical sensations within the body, the beating of the heart and the feeling of energy moving through the body, whatever feels most soothing. We learn to take refuge in the comfort of being at home in the body.
The second way of coming into present moment awareness is by focusing on what we perceive through the sensory capacities of seeing, hearing, smelling, tasting and touching. Paying attention to sensory perception connects us to the immediate world around us. Rather than feeling disconnected from our experience, we feel interconnected to life as it arises in the here and now.
During retreat we practice mindfulness and awareness using sound, taste, body sensation, walking meditation, and movement awareness.
Like breathing, sensory perception is familiar and easy to overlook. Thoughts demand our attention. However, when we are lost in thoughts we disconnect from our experience of the outer life. By paying full attention to our subjective experience of the outer world we realize that we are deeply connected to it. In reconnecting we feel alive and know that we belong, just because we are.
Four Day-Three Night Retreat Early Registration, Postmarked before April 30
Per Person Double Occupancy, $380.
Per Person Private Room, $440.
Late Registration, Postmarked after April 30
Per Person Double Occupancy, $410.
Per Person Private Room, $470.
St. Crispin’s RetreatCenter is located on 400 acres in the rolling, oak-covered hills of SeminoleCounty within easy driving distance of Oklahoma City and Tulsa. There are quiet hiking trails and two lakes that convey a felt sense of peacefulness, stillness and serenity.
The retreat center lodge overlooks a tranquil lake surrounded by native oak-covered hills. The facility is a modern conference center with hotel style rooms. Each room has two twin beds and a private bathroom.
The retreat center is about one hour twenty minutes from WillRogersWorldAirport (in Oklahoma City) and about one hour forty minutes from TulsaInternationalAirport.
When making travel arrangements please keep in mind that in order to attend the retreat you are required to arrive on time and stay through the end of the retreat. Please allow extra time for travel to the retreat center.
We offer a limited number of partial work scholarships to retreats for those who need financial assistance.
Cancellation fees are as follows: 31 days or more prior to retreat, $25 cancellation fee. 14–30 days prior to the retreat, 50% of retreat tuition. 14 days or less prior to the retreat, no refund.
Thursday, check-in 1:30 pm to 3:00 pm. Thursday program 3:30 pm to 9 pm. Friday & Saturday program 7:30 am to 9 pm. Sunday program is from 7:30 am to 1 pm.
Because the schedule is a vital part of the retreat container, we require that all attendees arrive on time and plan to stay through the end of the retreat. Participants are also required to attend the first and last meditations of each day.
Retreat leaders Rick NurrieStearns, a thirty plus year student of Buddhism, Taoism, Yoga Philosophy, and Meditation. He is a meditation teacher, business owner and retreat leader who has been involved in publishing spiritual and transformational books, and magazines for over 20 years. He was the publisher of the magazines Personal Transformation and Lotus, and was the co-editor of the book Soulful Living. In the late 1990's he experienced a series of life transforming spiritual awakenings.
Mary NurrieStearns, is a psychotherapist, retreat leader and yoga teacher with a private counseling practice in Tulsa. She travels across the nation, teaching yoga and meditation practices to mental health professionals. She has produced CDs on mindfulness and profound self acceptance. She was the editor of Personal Transformation magazine and co-editor of the book "Soulful Living". A spiritual sojourner for many years, she knows the indescribable joy and peace to be found in silence.
Upcoming Seminars and Workshops
Mindfulness and Radical Self-Acceptance.
A one day seminar to be held in the following cities.
Allentown, PA Wednesday, May 27, 2009 King of Prussia, PA Thursday, May 28, 2009 Cherry Hill, NJ Friday, May 29, 2009 Seminar Details
Yoga and Mindfulness. A one day seminar to be held in the following cities. Eau Claire, WI Wednesday, July 29, 2009 Rosehill, MN Thursday, July 30, 2009 Bloomington, MN Friday, July 31, 2009 Seminar Details
Ellicott City, MD Wednesday, October 7, 2009 College Park, MD Thursday, October 8, 2009 Fairfax, VA Friday, October 9, 2009 Seminar Details-Soon
Keynote Speaker
Living with meaning and purpose in the second half of life conference